episode 11: Twisselman Ranch
CARRISA PLAINS, CALIFORNIA
“There’s something magical about the romance of the old west. There’s a lot of sweat, blood, and tears. I think you acquire that from being out in the boondocks like we are and still being close to civilization so you can see both sides. You know, being able to see both sides is a real important thing.”
For 13 years, the Twisselman family hosted a cattle drive across the ranch. They invited people from all walks of life to drive a herd of 800 head of cattle across the high desert range and experience the wild west first hand. With about 150 people involved, they had a cross section of society from corporate heads in Los Angeles to local news crews. They’d drive the cattle across the Temblor Mountain Range during the day and in the evenings they’d gather around the camp for a ranch dinner and evening entertainment.
“It was a lasting remembrance, you might say, for an awful lot of people.”
“Be damn careful who you marry because that’s a tough one. I think marriages only last about 8 or 10 years now and if it’s all it's going to last, you don’t even want to fool with it. That’s like buying a house that’s going to fall down in about 8 or 10 years. That’s kind of silly.”
Darrell and his wife Nola were married 69 years before he passed away in October 2022. Together they raised eight kids and had 21 grandchildren and 20 great grandchildren.
Looking back at growing their family on the ranch, Nola shared, “I wouldn’t raise eight kids anywhere else but right here on the ranch, especially in town. I’d go nuts.”
Living an hour from the nearest town or civilization of any kind, the kids were free to roam. With such a large family, it was common for the older kids to help take care of the little ones.
Ever since Kiah was a little girl, her grandpa always told her she needed to do something with people. Her love of people and storytelling took her far off the ranch to become a life coach, speaker, and now co-host of the Backroad Cowgirls TV show.
Growing up, she always struggled with seeing how she fit in with the ranch. When she asked her Grandpa Darrell what he thought, he said,
“I think for one thing, the ranch is like growing a crop. It gives you roots, so that’s your roots. Wherever you go, whatever you do, that’s your roots. And so you just feed those roots. Protect the idea of the ranch and the romance of the old west.”
Darrell had many business ventures on the ranch from raising cattle, breeding bucking bulls, mining gravel, guided hunting, and more. No matter which direction his big ideas took him, one thing that always stayed constant was his love for what he did.
“I always advise everybody, don’t get into a job you don’t love to do, even if it’s paying ten times as much as one that you do love to do… You go out and you look through society and the most successful and happiest, content people are the people who are doing something they love to do. You can’t beat that.”
— Darrell Twisselman